

Find Healing from Sex Addiction
So I will restore to you the years that the swarming locust has eaten.
Joel 2:25
I assist men in healing from Sex Addiction (SA) and Porn Addiction (PA). These complex behavioral issues often require a compassionate and multidisciplinary approach to treatment. As your counselor, it is essential for us to understand the underlying emotional, psychological, and relational factors contributing to these conditions.
Compassionate Connection Counseling

Sex Addiction
What is Sex Addiction?
Sex addiction, also known as hypersexuality or compulsive sexual behavior disorder, is characterized by an overpowering preoccupation with sexual activities that can harm personal, professional, and social aspects of life. Individuals may engage in pornography consumption, multiple affairs, or risky sexual encounters, often driven by an uncontrollable urge that leads to guilt and shame.

The Importance of Groups
Why are Group Meetings Essential?
Sex and porn addiction are increasingly recognized as significant issues affecting men's mental health, relationships, and overall well-being. Support groups provide a safe space for individuals to share experiences, learn coping strategies, and foster recovery. This document outlines the facilitation of such groups, focusing on creating an effective environment for overcoming these challenges.
How to restore what the swarming locusts have eaten.
“SOS” is a well-known distress signal indicating that urgent help is needed. It serves as an international call for assistance during emergencies. Sex addiction, pornography use, and intimacy starvation are serious distress signals. The Locust Group is here to help.
Overcoming sex and porn addiction, as well as intimacy starvation requires significant behavioral changes. Many men find that counseling sessions are essential for reclaiming a normal life. These personal sessions help identify the root causes of addiction and promote positive behavioral change. It's important to understand how sex and porn addiction, along with intimacy anorexia, function, and what steps are necessary to overcome these challenges. Often, past trauma is a contributing factor, and Inner Child Recovery therapy can be beneficial for clients dealing with these issues.
Self
We heal within the community. It's been said that the opposite of addiction isn't sobriety; it's connection. At TLG, we focus on spending time with other men so you can learn to be honest, open, and genuine, an essential coping skill for healthy, authentic living. Our groups promote accountability and provide ongoing support as you work towards healing.
Others
TLG employs the 12-step program and various resources to highlight that time with God promotes healing. The central message includes recognizing powerlessness over addiction, trusting in God's strength, making amends, and supporting others in recovery. Honesty, accountability, and community support are emphasized as essential in overcoming your sex addiction.
Spirit

I am a compassionate pastoral counselor with over 20 years of experience guiding individuals on their personal and spiritual journeys. My goal is to create a safe and nurturing environment that fosters healing and growth. I specialize in treating sex and porn addiction and intimacy starvation, utilizing empathetic listening, spiritual mentoring, and evidence-based techniques to support my clients. Furthermore, I am an engaging speaker and workshop leader who inspires transformative change by encouraging individuals to prioritize their well-being.
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I hold a master’s degree in Christian Leadership, I am certified as a Sex Addiction Pastoral Counselor (SRPC) and an Intimacy Anorexia Pastoral Counselor (IAPC) by the American Association for Sex Addiction Therapy (AASAT.org). Additionally, I am a certified Inner Child Recovery Specialist (ICRS) through Pure Life Academy. I am completing my PSAP certification from the International Institute for Trauma & Addiction (IITAP). PSAP stands for Pastoral Sex Addiction Professional.
![]() Sex Addiction & Intimacy Anorexia Characteristics.... | ![]() Sex Addiction...Compulsivity, Preoccupation, Escalation, Neglect of responsibilities, Continued engagement despite consequences, Emotional distress, Withdrawal. | ![]() Intimacy Anorexia...Withholding Love, Blame and Criticism, Avoiding Intimacy, Busy Lifestyle, Creating Distance from your partner. | ![]() Seeking Help...Recognizing Sexual Addiction and Intimacy Anorexia is the first step toward recovery. Therapy can help individuals and couples address this issue and learn healthier ways to connect. | ![]() Resources and Support...The Locust Group provides resources, educational content, access to licensed therapists, and working groups for individuals impacted by Sex Addiction and Intimacy Anorexia. |
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"The harder the conflict, the more glorious the triumph.”
Thomas Paine
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